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Rudder has given us insight into OKCupid’s dating algorithm in a TED-Ed lesson and visited our New York office to speak as part of our miniature TED session about love.To help you get in the Valentine’s Day spirit, here are some surprising facts we learned from Rudder about online dating behavior.
To get the big picture I decided to set up a fake female profile (also aged 23) equipped with sexy pic and standard essays that would fit any human being.
If you email her, she’ll first see your username, photo and subject line of your email. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this: Note: Bad usernames are typical.
Just take a look on any dating website for yourself and you’ll see.
Yes, we’re all looking for someone interesting, brilliant, witty and kind, but we’re perfectly willing to contact someone who is hot and boring.
Which is why I routinely get emails from men, saying “What am I supposed to say to her? Doesn’t matter how high-powered, spiritual, deep or intelligent, women’s favorites lists are littered with cute guys with square jaws, washboard abs and dull profiles.
She’s sexy and has nothing to say.” To which I say, “Why would you want to sit across a dinner table from someone who is sexy and has nothing to say? Still, I’m not here to mock the value of attraction.